Comments on: Friendship Fix? http://ilashgirls.com/friendship-fix/ your online community for women by women Mon, 28 Dec 2009 16:20:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Ashley http://ilashgirls.com/friendship-fix/comment-page-1/#comment-2386 Ashley Mon, 16 Feb 2009 05:10:12 +0000 http://ilashgirls.com/?p=684#comment-2386 Honestly, I think you need to consider how much energy its taking to maintain this relationship. Did you do something that needs an apology, or is this a recurring theme in the relationship. It might not be a good match. I think friendship shouldn't feel like a chore, and I choose to maintain relationships with women who are going to be OK with me not calling for a month or so if things are really crazy.. but when I do, we can pick right up where we left off. Otherwise, I think going out to lunch is always a good fix! Honestly, I think you need to consider how much energy its taking to maintain this relationship. Did you do something that needs an apology, or is this a recurring theme in the relationship. It might not be a good match. I think friendship shouldn’t feel like a chore, and I choose to maintain relationships with women who are going to be OK with me not calling for a month or so if things are really crazy.. but when I do, we can pick right up where we left off.

Otherwise, I think going out to lunch is always a good fix!

]]> By: California grandma http://ilashgirls.com/friendship-fix/comment-page-1/#comment-2359 California grandma Tue, 10 Feb 2009 08:28:49 +0000 http://ilashgirls.com/?p=684#comment-2359 I find that giving someone, whether family member or friend, some time and space allows both parties to think things over and try harder to make things work. I find that giving someone, whether family member or friend, some time and space allows both parties to think things over and try harder to make things work.

]]> By: Cindy H http://ilashgirls.com/friendship-fix/comment-page-1/#comment-2346 Cindy H Mon, 09 Feb 2009 16:46:10 +0000 http://ilashgirls.com/?p=684#comment-2346 Send a funny card, beg forgivnesss, blame it on hormones, give it time, have a good laugh and try harder!! Or re-evaluate the friendship. I have had times in my life where certain friendships were too much work. It felt freeing to step away, occasionaly for good. Send a funny card, beg forgivnesss, blame it on hormones, give it time, have a good laugh and try harder!!
Or re-evaluate the friendship. I have had times in my life where certain friendships were too much work. It felt freeing to step away, occasionaly for good.

]]> By: Janet F http://ilashgirls.com/friendship-fix/comment-page-1/#comment-2342 Janet F Mon, 09 Feb 2009 16:31:52 +0000 http://ilashgirls.com/?p=684#comment-2342 Have a heart to heart talk and find out if the friendship can be restored. Have a heart to heart talk and find out if the friendship can be restored.

]]> By: Barbara Watkins http://ilashgirls.com/friendship-fix/comment-page-1/#comment-2341 Barbara Watkins Mon, 09 Feb 2009 15:58:16 +0000 http://ilashgirls.com/?p=684#comment-2341 Just show love. If you continue to show love, in spite of what happened, eventually, it will be mended. Just show love. If you continue to show love, in spite of what happened, eventually, it will be mended.

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